Since childhood, I have been interested in psychology.
I wanted to understand everything - how to earn the love of my parents, how to avoid the cruelty of classmates, how the hell girls like it. I was very worried. I wanted to understand how everything works here and what I should do or what I need to be in order to live more comfortably, so that my desires come true. I don't want much, I thought. Others just have it, but they don't even appreciate it.
I remember reading Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People once. Yes, that's what you need!!! Now how to “make friends” friends how to “influence”. So everyone around will do what I want!! Yeah)
I still remember the advice from this book - Smile at other people.
And I enthusiastically went to try it out into the world and the first thing I heard in response was not my smile - “What are you smiling about, sick or something.” It scared me.
I read many more books on psychology, which filled my theoretical knowledge base, but didn’t really work out with practice.
I graduated from high school, then university in a specialty that I did not want, but which I passed. Now I am a mechanical engineer.
Married, gave birth to two children, divorced, married, gave birth to another child.
At the same time, I tried to do business, burned out, borrowed money, did it again and burned out again. I have more than 15 business investments on my account, of which 6 are completely autonomous, 2 of which deserve attention.
And so 2 wives, 3 children and passive income, and I decide not to do anything actively. Rest.
For two years I did nothing. And little by little it became more and more unbearable and unbearable.
At that moment, my psychologist friend Polina advised me to go and learn Gestalt therapy.
This is where my journey as a psychotherapist began.
Seminars, conferences, intensives, supervisions, personal therapy, higher psychological education.
There were so many things.
Now I am a different person.
More lively, sensitive, supporting and reliable. It's easy and calm with me.
My sense of humor makes therapy an exciting, fun adventure.
I'll be very helpful for anxious, emotional women. my calmness and regularity is felt and transmitted automatically upon contact.
My sensitivity and empathy allows me to subtly feel the state of the client, to empathize, to be close without analysis and judgment, to totally accept the client's life.
Therefore, I work carefully and gently, carefully, but not always, where necessary, I will show rigidity and firmness. You can rely on me.
I will visit those women who experience difficulties in relations with men (father, husband, boyfriend, son, brother, colleague or any other man with whom you communicate).
I bring structure and order. I help to look at the situation from above from the outside, which gives more understanding, reduces anxiety and makes it possible to make more balanced, responsible, conscious life decisions. Subtly notice hidden sides from the client.